First Consensus
It's bad form not to accept what's being given. Not polite at all. Nohow.
If there's someone to give it, it's given. If there's no one, it ain't.
Contrarywise, one shouldn't take what hasn't been given. Very rude conduct, that.
If there's someone to give it, it's given. If there's no one, it ain't.
That's logic.